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Retired Presbyterian pastor/ author/ cowhand/

I am creative , a deep and spiritual man, very romantic and extremely playful. Dogs, cats, horses and little kids sense my loving spirit quickly -[ although I have been bitten, clawed, bucked off, and kicked in the shins on occasion. ] While not shy, I am reluctant to "put the moves" on women with whom I am just starting to explore a relationship. Physical attraction is important to me - but I need to know her soul . I am not 19 any more and real sharing happens in the car, at the grocery store, and just being together. .

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Christian Preferences

My denomination is:Christian Reformed
Attends churchMany times a year

Dancing Preferences

Started dancingI haven't started yet
Attends dance classesNo, I don't
Attends competitionsNo
Prizes and medals:No
Dancing frequencyAlmost never
Only dates dancersNo


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height183 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairNone
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
Employment StatusPart-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job Titleemployee

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, I don't like TV, Re-runs
Favorite TV showsNon at present
Favorite movies typesAction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Thriller
Favorite moviesBrave Heart - WE were Soldiers - Kung Pow! - Troy - The Lion,the Witch and the Wardrobe -
The Shack - Saving Private Ryan - Gods and Generals - ZULU -
Music typesClassical, Reggae, Gospel, Folk
Favorite artistsEverly Brothers - Patsy Cline - Ken Overcast - John Denver - Willy Nelson - Michael Jackson -
Reading selectionAuto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, Fiction, History, Humor, Music, Mystery, Religious, Satire, I don't like reading, I'm an author
Favorite booksThe Chronicles of Narnia - The Lord of the Rings - Centennial - The Master and Commander series -
Battle Cry - We were Soldiers - Eaters of the Dead - Jurrasic Park - The Shining - -Shawshank Redemption - Into the Shadowlands - Til We have Faces
Idea of funPushing cows with a saddle pard in Montana - riding or hiking a trail in a national park or monument museums and historical sites - target shooting ith rifle and pistol on a closed range - "hunting" elk, deer and birds with a camera - reading a really good book - sharing wine and a good dinner with a special someone - canoeing down a gentle river - fly fishing in Montana - beer around a campfire with my guitar and that special someone sharing the fun.- being part of a living history unit and sharing histor with tourists. Teaching scripture and Biblical history.
HobbiesReading, Learning, Music, Movies, Family, Photography, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Travel, Gardening, Camping, Shopping


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Nerd
Sense of humorFriendly
My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Staying at home, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, Playing dress-up, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryTraveling in Europe with a companion and not a tour - riding to the China Wall in the "Bob" [ Bob Marshall Willderness of Montana] - visiting the Holy Land - learnng to play the bagpipes - . working the chutes at the rodeo - visiting Austraila and New Zealand - visiting the Louve in Paris - getting a really good garden going - serenading my beloved with the song from the "Student Prince"


Political viewsConservative
Goal in lifeTo be whole again and to see my son over come his disabilities and live his dream. I also hope to gt back to writing another book but more importantly, to make some imact on a few lives through my writg which will livefar longer than I will, I hope.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI once was connected to another soul and together I became whole. Like seeing with two eys instead of only one, I gained perspective and depth. When the ex abandoned the marriage and had an affair all that collapsed and i am only half what I was. I want to be whole again.
On the first dateKeep it light and see how she reacts to my strange humor. and if she and I share a wave length. I need to be reconnected to a soul mate and while that will obviously take a good deal of time and work, within a short time any real sense of potential connection that could possibly be there will be obvious. We all set up barriers of course and ramming or trying to break them down is foolish. They must be dropped from the other side as the trust grows. So the point would be to jkeep her feeling safe and relaxed - and sharing. I will see if there is any interest on her side and back off if there is not. If there is, I will suggest a future date in order to help discover who the other is . Slow and easy and relaxed .